A feeling that accompanies love, a feeling that burns us from the inside, a feeling that prevents us so much to rejoice at every minute spent together.
How to defeat jealousy
Jealousy is a feeling that you need to fight, it is a feeling that you need to learn to win.
When jealousy swings you, try to control yourself. Calm down and do not chop off your shoulder. Jealousy destroys the relationship, do not give her to capture your mind. Fight to the last harmful feeling with this.
First of all, learn to trust your soulmate. No need to check the number of calls or monitor your loved one’s personal life, try to trust. To trust another person is a whole art, but you must master it if you want to live a calm and happy life.
Watch yourself. Follow your appearance and mental balance. A person who has no complexes will not be jealous for no reason. Get rid of your own doubts, because of them your beloved should not suffer.
Be sure to devote time to your favorite studies. Swim, dance, sing in karaoke, go to a circle with a cross. You should have a favorite thing that will distract you from stupid thoughts and bring pleasure.
Fear of betrayal is like a fear of death. Fear always accompanies us. But you do not think every day about the fact that today you can die. And in the case of treason, do not constantly think that your second half will change you. This is at least stupid. If it happens, then you will be upset. Why exhaust yourself in advance with suspicions, especially since this may never happen. Be wise.
Talk to your beloved, ask him to avoid situations in which you can suspect something wrong. Did not hug with unfamiliar girls, did not kiss her friends in the cheek. After all, in his midst, it can be just a gesture of sympathy and politeness. Explain that you are not used to this, and it causes you unpleasant sensations. If a person loves you, it will not be difficult to correct his behavior.
Just do not bring to ridiculous, do not find out how much your favorite female familiar has, and if he had feelings for his classmate. Do not be a child. Remember, because your love is with you now, pleases you, take care of you. And no one else in his heart is powerful. Isn’t that wonderful? This is not necessary to poison all this with jealousy. This will not bring you happiness.
If you still succumbed to the impulse of jealousy, do not let her swing you completely. Do not lose your head and do not do stupid things. Try to stay alone to calm down and recover. Weigh everything with you alone, do not say all sorts of unpleasant things to your loved one, do not throw yourself accusations. If you only “seemed” to you there, you should not blame a person of all mortal sins. Think it over, because your love is higher than that.
Well, if you suddenly did not have time to come to your senses, and spoke too much. Apologize as soon as possible and explain that you were not in yourself, did not know what to create. Explain that jealousy covered your eyes, loving people will understand you. And yet don’t repeat your mistakes.
Remember that your feelings have gone your way. On your way there were trials and crazy passion, difficulties and great joy.
How to defeat jealousy
Let more than anything, you want to hug each other. Do not forget, you are not strangers to each other, you love and love. This is most important, loving people do not hurt each other. Everything will be fine with you, as soon as you learn to love and live without looking back. Try, everything will be fine.